Thursday, November 1, 2007

Contemplation

As we grow, we become harsh with people b'coz of prejudices or b'coz of their past mistake.For single mistake/misbehaviour committed in past,we hold them guilty & treat them badly,lifelong. we never give them a chance to correct themselves & even don't give chance to ourselves to forget and forgive. Many people even do not remember the mistake for which they treat others harshly!!!!! so,when we meet,even professionally, the conversation turns into an altercation, unnecessarily. Why can't we give people a chance, one fair chance, atleast to correct & prove themselves? rather why can't we give ourselves a fair chance toforgive & accept people as they are?
Our minds/perspectives are never pure or without prejudices,though we presume ourselves to be just.How can people change for us when we are not ready to change for anyone? sometimes when you want to avoid/stop a bitter talk but you can't & to add to that , you have to act as acatalyst so that situation doesn't get worse & you can't take any one's side as you are well conversant with both,what would you do? I suggest --not to comment on anyone ,but say to yourself--be true & say,atleast for myself i'll not try holding people guilty for things done in past. Let me give someone a fair chance so that someone else can give me one, if needed & i'm sure that many people are there who hold us guilty of past. Everyone of us has people with prejudices abt him/ her. It depends on us how we deal with them so that the future is not bitter....let's give a chance to ourselves' if not to others & try to the best of our ability to bring harmony to ourselves.........Let's give ourselves a fair chance to have a fair vision.............................