Did any of ur the closest friend hide something from u, anytime? maintained a professional secrecy? How does it feel that time? Emotions all over the map??? All " why, how, what, if's and but's interplaying in the mind.....People have reasons, justified to their logic...at the same time we are unable to understand those reasons and logic. Happens....life tests....
A heart to heart talk with trusted friend may help...Letting it out, letting the steam off helps...May be the other person whom you talk to about it, can give u the perspective u were ignoring or didn't see...Sharing each others' life experiences helps...It helps to see what people are dealing with, oh yes, they also have weird experiences with people, with friends... certain friend closing down the relation, certain friend having misinterpretation...not one, but, many things about people, about situations....
The pal you open ur heart to, may show u, how confused we are emotionally, at times.The friend may offer you a fruitful solution as well...It's not about " Let me deal with it", but it is " Let me stay with it, though it seems wrong." May be, we require help in building our own patience and remaining calm. Secrecy takes toll emotionally, I agree...but instead of judging a person and reaching any conclusion, it is always better to wait for right time when you two can talk, may be not in present moment, may be in distant future.
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